Mistakes to avoid when hiring Montreal escorts

Are you looking for company for a cocktail or for a dinner date while in Montreal? A professional companion is definitely an appealing option. There are two ways of finding your Montreal escorts. You can use an agency or you can hire independent Montreal escorts. Here are a few tips to help you find the right lady companion.

Montreal escorts agencies

Escort agencies will have a database of various female escorts. When you contact them, they will try to match your requirements with Montreal escorts available at that particular moment. The question is, how good are the chances of you actually being treated according to your preferences?

Accuracy of descriptions

Let’s consider this: about half of the donation goes to the escort, while the rest goes to the agency (who is responsible for paying the driver, the receptionist, the advertisement and all other charges related to running the agency). Because of these fixed costs, pressure to sale is definitely present at all time. For this reason, agencies are focusing on any potential client, even if it means distorting the truth a little (or a lot) about the escorts’ description.

You might think this is short sighted, as disgruntled clients would not contact this agency again… it is true. But consider many customers are just transiting through Montreal, and that many agencies are operating under several virtual identities, therefore making it difficult to know who you are actually dealing with. This practice is not about to be stopped, unfortunately.

What to do when the agency sends someone who doesn’t fit the description… at all!

Don’t be afraid to decline a lady if she does not correspond to what you’ve asked. Escort agencies are counting on this discomfort of yours, and the lack of resistance to this dishonest practice only incites them to continue.

One way to handle it is to inform the escort she doesn’t correspond to what you have asked the agency, give her a few bills for her trouble and close the door. The agency will surely call to inquire about what happened. You can decide if you are willing to give them a second chance. If they become rude or aggressive, hang up and ask the front desk to not connect any calls to your room.

If someone comes to your door (such as a driver), do not open and if necessary, inform the front desk someone is disrupting in the hall. Although I doubt it would come to this, since in my experience, agencies give up when the person do not respond to the door or the phone.

What can happen if you turn her away?

You are afraid of trouble? It is perfectly understandable. However, keep in mind that agencies are also afraid of authorities and especially of being identified as trouble makers. Their entire business relies on being able to operate freely. Indeed, Montreal is one of the most liberal city in North America, and police officers tolerate what happens between two consenting adults, as long as you stay away from:

  • Underage providers
  • Drug users
  • Providers who are coerced into working
  • Incall locations such as brothels (including massage parlours)
  • Direct solicitation, such as picking up a street prostitute.

Escorts agencies know that if there are the subject of complaints, such as threatening someone or causing any trouble to the general public, you can be sure the police will act promptly, reminding them about the fine line they are walking on.

Agencies worst nightmare: Hotel ban

Also, in the event of disruption in their establishment, an hotel will ban an escort agency. How? They simply do so by spotting the driver’s car or the escorts upon their arrival at the hotel. And yes, they can tell. This will make future bookings at this location extremely difficult for the agency.

So, although escort agencies could threat to cause you trouble if you refuse their escort, you can be certain they won’t; they have too much to loose for so little in return.

Montreal Independent escorts

Many gentlemen choose to contact an independent escort in Montreal, and there are several reasons for this preference. Being independent already display an entrepreneurial side of their personality, which makes them appealing to many. Also, since they are the sole recipients of the donation, they can arrange a much smaller number of rendezvous. They are also not obliged or pressured by anyone to accept dates they do not want. These conditions increase the chances to meet a quality provider, someone who is more balanced and careful with things such as discretion, health and proper behavior.

How to screen an escort’s website

Another way to help identify a quality provider is the lady’s presentation itself. It will give you an opportunity to know more about who she is as a person and as a provider.

Quality of content

First, the courtesan’s website itself : is the website well build? Its content clear and informative? What type of pictures does she offers on her site: are they elegant and professional or vulgar and amateur? It is very easy for any provider to declare herself as being « upscale » and « classy ». After all, these are just words. But does her website reflect such characteristics?

Education and interests

How about her communication skills: can she write in a polite and educated manner? Does she do escorting full-time or does she have other interests? Maybe her website won’t give much details on these subjects, but upon meeting her for an introductory rendezvous, you will be able to find out.

Experience: what are you looking for?

If you are not looking for company but simply a quickie, then a regular escort offering short duration rendezvous will do the trick (pun intended 😉 But if you want a refine and sensual dinner date or in need of some intellectual stimulation from your date, then looking for a more mature and sophisticated escort who knows how to handle herself is more appropriate.

Don’t forget, you will be seen with her in public; embarrassment is not an option. While the voluptuous triple-F playmate with 6-inches heels and a tight dress can be quite exciting in the discretion of your room, you might not be comfortable with the level of attention she will draw on you the moment you step outside. So make your choice accordingly to the type of rendezvous you are looking for.

These were suggestions to guide your choice while selecting the perfect Montreal escort for your desire.

And what about Review Boards?

Maybe you’ve heard of these websites. They are unfortunately not reliable. They began as a great idea in the early 2000s, as a way to be made aware of scams perpetrated within the industry. But things quickly deteriorated. These sites became the meeting place of hobbyists (i.e. frequent users of escorts’ services), whose thrill consist on chatting and gossiping about escorts. They post graphic  reviews of their time with an escort while inviting others to comment on the girl’s services and performance.

To make matters worst, these websites have strict guidelines requiring writers to provide juicy details in order to be posted. And they reward reviewers on the number of reviews they post. Add the fact that boards are anonymous places where anyone can write anything about anybody without a shred of evidence. You can understand why the credibility of such sites is questionable, to say the least.

Be aware of reviews

All escorts have a number of «reviews» which are entirely made up, but are unable to do much about it.  Taking action requires becoming a writer on these boards, wasting time trying to demonstrate why the review is a fake and be confronted by «hobbyists» ready to jump into a juicy discussion.

It has also become a lucrative service for professional reviewers offering to write positive reviews in exchange of a small sum (I have received several offers).

The bottom line is: do not trust these sites.

How to assess the accuracy of an escort pictures gallery

Pictures displayed in escorts’ websites have always been a sensible topic. Do they really represent the escort in question? How about accuracy; have they been intensively modified? How can we be certain it is the “real” person who will show up?

Pictures: real or fake?

These questions are absolutely pertinent and the concern they reflect is a wise reaction. Because it is a fact that many websites are advertising ladies using fake pictures. And they are quite easy to obtain: a simple Google search for “sexy picture” will lead to thousands and thousands of images to choose from. So how can you tell if the escort gallery of the courtesan you are interested in is in fact authentic?

Photo shoot

Attention to a few details will do the trick. First, ask yourself if the pictures look too good to be true. A quality photo shoot is very expensive: you need to hire the services of professionals such as a hair and makeup artist, a stylist, a photographer, rent a large hotel suite (because of the need for adequate space for proper lightning). If an escort is advertising low rates while displaying top-model pictures… something is definitely wrong.

Diversity

Secondly, the diversity of pictures will also be informative: can you see different clothing styles? Different backgrounds? Be aware of escorts who only present limited pictures, using the same outfit or background. A scam website can be build in one evening, with very little investment.

Particularities

Finally, observe the pictures and try to detect something particular about the model, and then try to find it in her other pictures. It can be a jewel, a tattoo, a beauty mark, or simply something general such as her hands, her bone structure, her smile which you can identify from one picture to another. In order to practice, go to my escort gallery and try to find my own particularities (yes, there are a few 😉

Tips for selecting your Montreal escorts

Where to begin…

There are many escorts in Canada and the U.SA. A quick look on the Web and you will see hundreds of providers claiming to be the best one for your desires.

The words ” VIP “, “ Upscale ” and “ Exclusive ” are unfortunately being overused. This has created much confusion and disappointment to discerning gentlemen looking for a professional companion.

Different men are looking for different things. Therefore, it is essential for you to know the type of lady and the kind of experience you are looking for. This is how you can prevent disappointment and wasting money on experiences you won’t enjoy… which is definitely not the point of these type of arrangement!

Courtesan VS Escorts

There are ways to differentiate an authentic Courtesan versus a regular Escort.

An elite courtesan will not have an agenda filled with rendezvous, leaving her without any time left to pursue other interests, such as education, sport or hobbies, all of which are essential to her mental and physical wellness. You might be able to see from her website or after a few exchanges with her if she corresponds to this description.

Quantity over quality

A courtesan will not accept just any proposition; she will have criteria about the gentlemen she accepts to meet.

Be aware of escorts offering “last minute” or “available now”, short duration rendezvous or an extensive list of services provided. A provider who is into quantity is not a courtesan. Period.

Finally, a true courtesan is highly educated, mature, at ease in any social settings and above all, very discreet. She is able to handle any subject of conversation and she keeps herself well-informed on international affairs. She will treat her body and mind with the respect it deserves. This is a confident lady who understands she has a lot to give. But most of all, she knows her place as a professional companion, and is always careful to act in the best interest of her partner. She has a high profile clientele which she never talks about, and she keeps herself exclusive to those fitting her selection criteria, unwilling to compromise.

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Different situations in which you can use a Montreal escort

Why use Escort services? Stephanie de Montreal

Escort services offer a variety of companionship, from a purely social rendezvous to a more intimate moment. Just like women working in any other industry, courtesans aim to make a living from their work. So in this regard, yes, they are doing it for the money. When you hire a financial adviser, s/he is also doing it to generate income, despite their passion for the investment industry. The adviser may enjoy working with you because you are a pleasant customer to deal with, you share similar views, communicate easily, etc. The same kind of relationship can be established with a courtesan. If you become a “regular” or a “repeat customer”, you will get to mutually know your preferences — and this will make the experience more relaxed and enjoyable.

Most of the women that I’ve met who work as courtesans enjoy what they do (I am referring to independent escorts who are working on their own free will and for their own benefice). But obviously, some customers are better appreciated than others. How can you appeal to escorts and make them look forward to meeting you? No, you don’t have to be a multi-millionaire or be in top physical shape to please a courtesan. All you have to do is treat a woman with respect. It is that simple.

How to treat your professional companion

Like any human beings, an escort will react to the way she is being treated. If you are a gentleman, she will be touched by your attention and kindness and will respond accordingly. On the other hand, if you treat her like a paid service provider and make no effort in making your time together an enjoyable one, she will be cold and mechanical, before disappearing at the first opportunity. And that is if she doesn’t abruptly end the encounter, not wanting to waste her good mood on someone who obviously has such little consideration for others.

The taboo of paying for it

Many have an issue about having to “pay for it”. I often hear that paying for a professional escort is for losers who can’t get a date otherwise. Let’s be clear on one thing: this is absolutely false. With a few exceptions (such as men with extreme shyness or severe physical handicaps), the gentlemen I have met had no difficulties with finding women to date. If this is true, you wonder, why would they pay for it? Well, there are a number of advantages worth considering.

“Real” dating doesn’t cost as much… right?

It does. In fact, few will argue that dating isn’t simple nor free. In order to get a woman to have an intimate moment with you, you first have to find a lady who is both available and attracted to you. Then, you must succeed in introducing yourself and making her accept an invitation for a date. If you manage to make this happened, you will most probably spend a considerable amount of money to cover meals, drinks, movie, transportation, etc. And it is also quite possible that you will have to repeat a couple times before enjoying an intimate experience with her. Money aside, it also requires a significant amount of time, which is not easily done with a busy schedule.

If you are looking for true love or a long-term relationship, then yes, it is absolutely worth the investment.  But what if you aren’t?

The no strings attached, casual sex relationship

So for whatever reason, you are not looking for something serious. You just want someone with whom you can share a good moment, no strings attached. If you look for a one-night stand, then you are having intimate encounters with a stranger, just as you would with an escort.  You will get to know her over dinner or drinks, share a few laughs, spend the night together and will go separate ways afterwards.

But if she is not an escort, then how can you be sure of how this will end in the morning? Will she leave or expects more out of you? And what if she regrets her actions, feels shameful and builds resentment towards you. Could she causes troubles in your personal life or at your work place? This single night of fun can turn out to be disastrous and costly on many levels.

The joy of a blooming relationship

If you start a relationship, you are bound to run into one of big problem: you both have to want it at the same time. If you have repeated sexual encounters with the same person, you will soon face the “where is this relationship going”. It will require to establish where you stand on your intentions. The casual relationship will have to become monogamous and eventually, a real commitment.

This will lead to the question of dealing with her friends, her family, her religion, her spending habits, her moods, her shrink, her astrologer, her dealing with your friends and family. All while trying to adjust to each other’s habits, musical tastes, children, pets, ex-lovers… all this when all you really wanted was just an occasional sexual encounter. Ok, a bit extreme in terms of example, but you get the idea.

So hiring a professional escort is a much simpler way to have an intimate rendezvous when you want it and without having to worry about the next morning.

Getting back into dating

There is another possible scenario: what if you are lonely and you want that special someone to settle down with so you can have kids and live happily ever after. But you haven’t had an intimate encounter in so long that when you go on a date, you get overly anxious, you make faux pas after faux pas, resulting in a horrible impression to the lady you are trying to impress. Even if you succeed in seducing her, you feel the pressure to perform and are so nervous that it messes everything up. At the end, you get rejected or are so embarrassed that you don’t contact her again, and you’re just that much more love-starved and depressed.

Women are attracted to men who are confident and they are turned off by those who are sexually needy. That’s why when you need an intimate encounter the most, women don’t want to be with you. An escort can help break this cycle. You experience a number of intimate encounters with her, feel more relaxed and better about yourself, and when you go on a date, you don’t feel you *must* have a sexual encounter. When you do have one, you can take your time and enjoy. Without the need and the performance anxiety, the relationship can freely develop and have a better chance of lasting. And the fact that you may have learned a few tricks in the meantime will definitely be on the plus side.

When you’re with a courtesan, you’re going to experience an intimate experience. You don’t have to worry about “if” because that’s not an issue; things are clear and simple. And arranging to meet with a courtesan doesn’t mean that you have to give up dating or pursuing a relationship. In fact, being with an escort may boost your confidence and well-being, which as a result, will make you more attractive to women and enhance your chance to find a long-term partner, if this is what you’re looking for.

Courtesans can help you sharpen your intimate skills. They are open to answering questions about women or sexuality in general most people won’t discuss. So go ahead: ask!

Once you get over the “paying for it” barrier, you’ll realize that what you get is an intimate encounter with a woman who is a lot better at it than most people, without the complications associated with “free” dating.

Obviously, being with a courtesan isn’t the same as “true love”. It is not meant to replace it and it is certainly not for everyone. But then again, so is being in a long-term monogamous relationship. And if you do want it, but simply haven’t found that special lady yet, a professional courtesan will be the perfect companion to spend time with… until you do.

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