Escort services offer a variety of companionship, from a purely social rendezvous to a more intimate moment. Just like women working in any other industry, courtesans aim to make a living from their work. So in this regard, yes, they are doing it for the money. When you hire a financial adviser, s/he is also doing it to generate income, despite their passion for the investment industry. The adviser may enjoy working with you because you are a pleasant customer to deal with, you share similar views, communicate easily, etc. The same kind of relationship can be established with a courtesan. If you become a “regular” or a “repeat customer”, you will get to mutually know your preferences — and this will make the experience more relaxed and enjoyable.
Most of the women that I’ve met who work as courtesans enjoy what they do (I am referring to independent escorts who are working on their own free will and for their own benefice). But obviously, some customers are better appreciated than others. How can you appeal to escorts and make them look forward to meeting you? No, you don’t have to be a multi-millionaire or be in top physical shape to please a courtesan. All you have to do is treat a woman with respect. It is that simple.
Like any human beings, an escort will react to the way she is being treated. If you are a gentleman, she will be touched by your attention and kindness and will respond accordingly. On the other hand, if you treat her like a paid service provider and make no effort in making your time together an enjoyable one, she will be cold and mechanical, before disappearing at the first opportunity. And that is if she doesn’t abruptly end the encounter, not wanting to waste her good mood on someone who obviously has such little consideration for others.
Many have an issue about having to “pay for it”. I often hear that paying for a professional escort is for losers who can’t get a date otherwise. Let’s be clear on one thing: this is absolutely false. With a few exceptions (such as men with extreme shyness or severe physical handicaps), the gentlemen I have met had no difficulties with finding women to date. If this is true, you wonder, why would they pay for it? Well, there are a number of advantages worth considering.
Few will argue that dating isn’t really simple nor free. In order to get a woman to have an intimate moment with you, you first have to find a lady who is both available and attracted to you. Then, you must succeed in introducing yourself to her and making her accept an invitation for a date. If you manage to make this happened, you will most probably spend a considerable amount of money to cover the restaurant, movie, transportation, drinks, etc. And it is also possible that you will have to take the lady out a couple times before enjoying an intimate experience with her. And not only this will cost money, but it also usually requires a significant amount of time and effort, which is not easily compatible with a busy schedule. If you are looking for true love or a steady, long-term relationship, then yes, it is absolutely worth it. But what if you aren’t?
So for whatever reason, you are not looking for something serious, just someone with whom you can share an enjoyable moment, no strings attached. If you go after a one-night stand, then you’re having intimate encounters with a stranger, just as you would with an escort: you get to know her over dinner or drinks, share a few laughs, spend the night together and expect to go separate ways afterwards. But if she is not an escort, then how can you be sure of how this will end in the morning? Will she leave and never try to contact you again, or will she expect more out of that encounter? And what if she regrets her actions, feels shameful and builds resentment towards you; could she cause troubles in your personal life or at your work place? This one night of fun can turn out to be disastrous and costly on many levels.
If you start a relationship, you are bound to run into one of big problem: you both have to want it at the same time. You can’t just get it when you want it. And eventually, if you have repeated sexual encounters with the same person, you will have to deal with “where is this relationship going” and establish where you stand on your intention to keep this relationship monogamous and eventually, real commitment. There is the question of dealing with her friends, her family, her religion, her spending habits, her moods, her shrink, her astrologer, her dealing with your friends and family, and trying to adjust to each other’s habits, musical tastes, money, property, children, pets, ex-lovers, jealousy,… all this when all you really wanted was just to have an occasional sexual encounter. Ok, a bit extreme in terms of example, but you get the idea.
So hiring a professional courtesan is a much simpler way to have an intimate rendezvous when you want it and without having to worry about the next morning. You can tell courtesans personal secrets that you’d never tell your closest friends.
There is another possible scenario: what if you are lonely and you want that special someone to settle down with so you can have kids and live happily ever after. But you haven’t had an intimate encounter in so long that when you go on a date, you get overly anxious, you make faux pas after faux pas, resulting in a horrible impression to the lady you are trying to impress. Even if you succeed in seducing her, you feel the pressure to perform and are so nervous that it messes everything up. At the end, you get rejected or are so embarrassed that you don’t contact her again, and you’re just that much more love-starved and depressed.
Women are attracted to men who are confident and they are turned off by those who are sexually needy. That’s why when you need an intimate encounter the most, women don’t want to be with you. An escort can help break this cycle. You experience a number of intimate encounters with her, feel more relaxed and better about yourself, and when you go on a date, you don’t feel you *must* have a sexual encounter. When you do have one, you can take your time and enjoy. Without the need and the performance anxiety, the relationship can freely develop and have a better chance of lasting. And the fact that you may have learned a few tricks in the meantime will definitely be on the plus side.
When you’re with a courtesan, you’re going to experience an intimate experience. You don’t have to worry about “if” because that’s not an issue; things are clear and simple. And arranging to meet with a courtesan doesn’t mean that you have to give up dating or pursuing a relationship. In fact, being with an escort may boost your confidence and well-being, which as a result, will make you more attractive to women and enhance your chance to find a long-term partner, if this is what you’re looking for.
Courtesans can help you sharpen your intimate skills. They are open to answering questions about women or sexuality in general most people won’t discuss. So go ahead: ask!
Once you get over the “paying for it” barrier, you’ll realize that what you get is an intimate encounter with a woman who is a lot better at it than most people, without the complications associated with “free” dating.
Obviously, being with a courtesan isn’t the same as “true love”. It is not meant to replace it and it is certainly not for everyone. But then again, so is being in a long-term monogamous relationship. And if you do want it, but simply haven’t found that special lady yet, a professional courtesan will be the perfect companion to spend time with… until you do.